- The Atrium is a place of prayer. It is purposeful work, fitting to the developmental plane, which leads to prayer (#3 of the 32 Points of Reflection).
- In the Atrium we must balance the needs of the individual and needs of the group.
- We must provide an environment that has a healthy balance of freedom and limits. (Destructive, Disruptive, Dangerous, or Distracting behavior must be limited.)
Tiers of Accommodation in relation to the Atrium:
- There are some children who struggle in other settings, but in the Atrium, because of the peaceful environment, they settle in and function well.
- At times, one child counts as several children in order to balance the needs of the individual with the needs of the group. Thus, while we typically have a limit of twelve children in L1, a particular child might count as three children so there are only ten in that group.
- If a child is struggling primarily with transitions or who is fine for a while but cannot handle the full amount of time, a parent stays outside of the Atrium and is there to take the child when (or hopefully just before!) the child is “finished.”
- There are times when an extra adult is present in the Atrium, possibly 1:1 with a particular child. It is typically best that this adult not be the parent of this child. You might consider inviting a teenager to take on this role.
- As we move into children who have greater difficulty being present in the Atrium, another way of serving them would be to have just a few children along with several adults present in the Atrium for a shorter amount of time.
- Finally, there are some children who are best served by time 1:1 with a catechist for a very short amount time, sometimes just twenty minutes or so.
The hope, particularly for the children who fit into the tiers mentioned later in this list, would be to move towards integrating them into the regular Atrium session. However, this might take months, years, or it might never be reached. In the meantime, truly following the child means adjusting the environment for their sake and this list provides some ideas for how to do that in a way that still offers the gift of CGS to the child.
Self-Reflection Questions:
- Which of the first three “principles” do you find easiest to facilitate with the children in the Atrium?
- Which of them is most challenging for you?
- Which “tiers of accommodation” have you tried?
- Can you think of a child who might benefit from one of these options which you have not yet attempted? How might you use this list to help serve him better?
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